i) Build skill first.
You might know this fictional character.He's Harvey Specter.He's the best god damn broker in the city.
Many of u want to be like him.He wears a 12000 dollars suit with a 500 dollar haircut.He has a powerful body language and perfect sense of fashion.But what we don't see is that he is a Harvard educated lawyer who is awesome at what he does.we often focus on improving our looks and style that forget that skills are what matters the most.Even if you have a perfect charisma,the other person will know if you're just a "show off" with no material.
ii) PRESISTENCE
The one and only charming personality that i admire who is Chris Gadner. I Wish atleast you read his biography if not then i'll give some brief description on it.Chris Gardener is an American businessman,investor,stcokbroker,motivational speaker,author and philanthropist who during the early 1980s,struggled with homelessness while raising his toddler son as his wife left to New York which make it difficult for him to raise his kid. since their is not passive income source through which he had to face really hard side of life .But due to his presistency he had a never dying attitude . He work when other sleeps and become best version of himself and all those things he want in his life now chase him.
iii) ATTITUDE
" MAYBE I WAS BORN A LOSER BUT I WILL DIE A FUCKING LEGEND'
I Believe attitude is everything.There are only two animals on the planet that the creator identifies himself with the first one is "EAGLE" and the second animal is the "LION". When i identified those two animals as his favourite to identify himself with i recoganized i better study these two animals because if he is leader of the universe and i want to be leader on earth i better find out the nature of this animals and attitude of these animals and i discovered that both are the king of their domain the eagle is the king of bird kingdom and lion is the king of animal kingdom but let's talk little bit about the lion the lion has what i called the spirit of leadership and this word spirit refers to attitude.A leader has a attitude that makes him or her different from followers. now the lion is king of jungle but for me lion is the great source of encouragement for me . i want to all of one who is reading this write is down or remeber this as long as you've live number one the lion is not the tallest animal in the jungle number two the lion is the largest animal in the jungle number three the lion is not the tallest animal in the jungle number 4 the lion is not the smartest animal or the most intelligent animal in the jungle and yet when he shows up they all run away. well here 's one of my favourite quotes that i learn from a book and i believe it really bring home the point the army of sheeps lead by a lion will always defeat an army of lionns lead by a sheap and the answer to that dilemma is this leadership can transform cowards into violent warriors the right kind of leadership can transform a timid into bold people who is fearless . SO ATTITUDE MATTERS.
iv) COURAGE
You got to have the courage do you have the courage to act outwardly on what you see inwardly or with god dreamer when you die on the verge and on the edge and up in the land of cutoff water . Do you have the courage as it takes courage to be suuceessful it is far more easier not to be successful miserable always have the company success breads contempt if you don't want to make waves be mediocore be normal and fit in and if you more concerned about people then you are god been neutralised everything he puts in you and just fit in with everybody else dress like them ,walk like them ,act like them , eat like them , go where they go , think like they think , do what they do and once you realize your uniqueness you don't need courage it takes courage to be different it take courage to get outside of the bar it takes courage to be successful it takes courage to be wise it takes courage to win they will all talk about people that don't win if you win they they're gonna talk about you do you have the courage to stand there so the storms keep reason and the people get to talk and you stab yourself too far to turn around do you have the courage .unless i'm gonna say something it take courage to be exceptional it tke courage to be rich it take courage to be entertaining it it take courage to be knowledgable because the moment you don't talk like you know you don't doubt for that where you take a look at the attacked if it takes courage and i'm just wondering in this weak water bound leaning over society that we live in today in this reality TV world we live in today i wonder if there's anybody left that's got the courage to say after all i've been through and all my ancestors have been through that's a pickle all of that just to fit in with normasee i have the courage to go after your dreams.
YES YOU. YOU ARE LOOKING FOR INFINITE THINGS IN YOUR DAILY LIFE SO STOP LOOKING FOR MORE UNLESS YOU'RE LOOKING IN A MIRROR BECAUSE IT'S ABOUT TIME FOR YOU TO SEE CLEARLY THAT YOU ARE WHO YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR and that empty felling you got that hole in your chest you only got that felling because you think you're not blessed with everything you need you see we live in consumerist society which means they need you to buy stuff and the easiest way to sell it is to tell you you're not enough buy this car you get girls and we're seeing so much that we start believing these lies but the truth is the makeup they're selling to make you feel prettier is the same makeup you buy to stop felling shitter about this lie they keep telling you that you are not enough and what about the movies we all watch and watch all the shows on TV's the more i watch the more i see i need you to complete me and yes love is the answer and love is the key but if you can't love yourself how could you ever love me and loving yourself what does that even mean like massages and selfies and that sort of things because the more i think about it the more it feels weird i've always been taught that self love is something to be fear i've been taught that arrogance is bad and vanity is not food and even my bracelets are telling me to act how jesus would so what should i do how should i act i'm supposed to love my self nut how do i even do that well i got a trick that i picked up from my friend who noticed that i quick defend here when she would says something negative about herself she would say i would so dump and i'd say you're so brilliant she'd say i'm so week and i'd say you're so resilient and when i fell ugly and i said ypu look beautiful she asked me why i was so dutifully filling up her cup constantly and yet treating my own cup so irresponsibly beacuse when i looked in the mirror my voice was quite clear you're ugly you're too thin your hairliness receding you got a pimple on you chin and that was when she gave me a piece of advice that change my life and she gave me a hug and she said " TREAT YOURSELF LIKE SOMEONE YOU LOVED".
You might know this fictional character.He's Harvey Specter.He's the best god damn broker in the city.
Many of u want to be like him.He wears a 12000 dollars suit with a 500 dollar haircut.He has a powerful body language and perfect sense of fashion.But what we don't see is that he is a Harvard educated lawyer who is awesome at what he does.we often focus on improving our looks and style that forget that skills are what matters the most.Even if you have a perfect charisma,the other person will know if you're just a "show off" with no material.
ii) PRESISTENCE
The one and only charming personality that i admire who is Chris Gadner. I Wish atleast you read his biography if not then i'll give some brief description on it.Chris Gardener is an American businessman,investor,stcokbroker,motivational speaker,author and philanthropist who during the early 1980s,struggled with homelessness while raising his toddler son as his wife left to New York which make it difficult for him to raise his kid. since their is not passive income source through which he had to face really hard side of life .But due to his presistency he had a never dying attitude . He work when other sleeps and become best version of himself and all those things he want in his life now chase him.
iii) ATTITUDE
" MAYBE I WAS BORN A LOSER BUT I WILL DIE A FUCKING LEGEND'
I Believe attitude is everything.There are only two animals on the planet that the creator identifies himself with the first one is "EAGLE" and the second animal is the "LION". When i identified those two animals as his favourite to identify himself with i recoganized i better study these two animals because if he is leader of the universe and i want to be leader on earth i better find out the nature of this animals and attitude of these animals and i discovered that both are the king of their domain the eagle is the king of bird kingdom and lion is the king of animal kingdom but let's talk little bit about the lion the lion has what i called the spirit of leadership and this word spirit refers to attitude.A leader has a attitude that makes him or her different from followers. now the lion is king of jungle but for me lion is the great source of encouragement for me . i want to all of one who is reading this write is down or remeber this as long as you've live number one the lion is not the tallest animal in the jungle number two the lion is the largest animal in the jungle number three the lion is not the tallest animal in the jungle number 4 the lion is not the smartest animal or the most intelligent animal in the jungle and yet when he shows up they all run away. well here 's one of my favourite quotes that i learn from a book and i believe it really bring home the point the army of sheeps lead by a lion will always defeat an army of lionns lead by a sheap and the answer to that dilemma is this leadership can transform cowards into violent warriors the right kind of leadership can transform a timid into bold people who is fearless . SO ATTITUDE MATTERS.
iv) COURAGE
You got to have the courage do you have the courage to act outwardly on what you see inwardly or with god dreamer when you die on the verge and on the edge and up in the land of cutoff water . Do you have the courage as it takes courage to be suuceessful it is far more easier not to be successful miserable always have the company success breads contempt if you don't want to make waves be mediocore be normal and fit in and if you more concerned about people then you are god been neutralised everything he puts in you and just fit in with everybody else dress like them ,walk like them ,act like them , eat like them , go where they go , think like they think , do what they do and once you realize your uniqueness you don't need courage it takes courage to be different it take courage to get outside of the bar it takes courage to be successful it takes courage to be wise it takes courage to win they will all talk about people that don't win if you win they they're gonna talk about you do you have the courage to stand there so the storms keep reason and the people get to talk and you stab yourself too far to turn around do you have the courage .unless i'm gonna say something it take courage to be exceptional it tke courage to be rich it take courage to be entertaining it it take courage to be knowledgable because the moment you don't talk like you know you don't doubt for that where you take a look at the attacked if it takes courage and i'm just wondering in this weak water bound leaning over society that we live in today in this reality TV world we live in today i wonder if there's anybody left that's got the courage to say after all i've been through and all my ancestors have been through that's a pickle all of that just to fit in with normasee i have the courage to go after your dreams.
v) YOU ARE WHO YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR
YES YOU. YOU ARE LOOKING FOR INFINITE THINGS IN YOUR DAILY LIFE SO STOP LOOKING FOR MORE UNLESS YOU'RE LOOKING IN A MIRROR BECAUSE IT'S ABOUT TIME FOR YOU TO SEE CLEARLY THAT YOU ARE WHO YOU'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR and that empty felling you got that hole in your chest you only got that felling because you think you're not blessed with everything you need you see we live in consumerist society which means they need you to buy stuff and the easiest way to sell it is to tell you you're not enough buy this car you get girls and we're seeing so much that we start believing these lies but the truth is the makeup they're selling to make you feel prettier is the same makeup you buy to stop felling shitter about this lie they keep telling you that you are not enough and what about the movies we all watch and watch all the shows on TV's the more i watch the more i see i need you to complete me and yes love is the answer and love is the key but if you can't love yourself how could you ever love me and loving yourself what does that even mean like massages and selfies and that sort of things because the more i think about it the more it feels weird i've always been taught that self love is something to be fear i've been taught that arrogance is bad and vanity is not food and even my bracelets are telling me to act how jesus would so what should i do how should i act i'm supposed to love my self nut how do i even do that well i got a trick that i picked up from my friend who noticed that i quick defend here when she would says something negative about herself she would say i would so dump and i'd say you're so brilliant she'd say i'm so week and i'd say you're so resilient and when i fell ugly and i said ypu look beautiful she asked me why i was so dutifully filling up her cup constantly and yet treating my own cup so irresponsibly beacuse when i looked in the mirror my voice was quite clear you're ugly you're too thin your hairliness receding you got a pimple on you chin and that was when she gave me a piece of advice that change my life and she gave me a hug and she said " TREAT YOURSELF LIKE SOMEONE YOU LOVED".



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